Saturday, November 8, 2008

An Uphill Battle

I'm back--with my armor on! The other day I was pondering the events of the last 2 months and thinking--I'm so exhausted! Since Gustav one thing after another has just "disrupted" our lives.

Now, I'm not going to go on a long spiel about how we didn't have electricity for 2 weeks, how we haven't received the check to fix the damages to our house, that the roof is leaking again, that during repairs they found significant (old) termite damage that had to be repaired, that while repairing the damage they cut a hole through our bedroom wall, that while tearing down the walled siding in the sunroom/office they broke a window, that Brett's mom fell and broke her hip leaving Brett and his siblings to care for his father who has dementia and through it all have gotten so behind on my school work. Oh, and I won't go on about how Brett was approached by a long ago friend (while at the movie theatre) who subtlely hinted that her 18 year old daughter might be his! (Anyway--thank the Lord that was negative!)

I was comforted by the Lord the other day when I was reminded--that although life keeps changing--He never changes--He is the same each and every day! (Hebrews 13:8) He remains constant and if my foundation is upon him--I can remain immoveable during these times.

The thought "Uphill Battle" came to my mind the other day. So, being the dictionary loving person I am--I looked up a definition and here are 2 that I found:
  • A challenge with the odds of success stacked strongly against
  • A struggle against unfavorable circumstances.

A "struggle" a "challenge" and "unfavorable circumstances"-- that's how I would describe the last 2 months! But I realized that each and every day I have a choice. I can choose to be miserable or I can "count it all joy" (James 1:2) that I am facing circumstances that challenge me and make me stronger. I just need to remind myself of who God is and be prepared for anything.

With confidence, I can say that Brett and I have grown closer through it all in addition to learning to deal with circumstances beyond our control. I believe it is all a time of prepartion for us (hopefully for those twins that I want to have!) :)

And it has also been a joy caring for his father who is so dear to my heart. I just love that man. He has been a wonderful husband for almost 60 years and an excellent example to Brett. For that I am eternally grateful and willing to give back!

3 comments:

Sonja said...

Cathy,
I have to say this...your are a beautiful woman of God! Your heart to care for others, encourage others is the reflection of Christ IN you reaching out!
Thank you for not giving up on me as a friend and for loving me inspite of my flaws!
Be ecouraged that when ALL seems unorganized, being restored or molded...in the process HE make ALL things NEW!
Our approach is defenately what make the process either a miserable one or happy one!
You'll be in my prayers friend!
Thank you for helping me put music on my blog...may try it on the "deep calls to deep one too"!

love you!

sonja

Tonja said...

phew!

You will come through this stronger, my friend! You will!

Sonja said...

Hi Cathy...been checking your blog...are you ok? Would love to hear from you soon, I will call you.
In my prayers.

sonja

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